The Menu

A desire checklist for couples. Every kink, fetish, and fantasy, from vanilla to the far edge.

Here’s how it works: you and your partner go through the whole list and each mark every item yes, maybe, or no, together on one screen or on two phones side by side. The ones you both said yes to become your list to try; the ones you disagree on become what to talk about. It beats a cold, awkward conversation.

Green means yes, yellow means maybe, red means no. A green isn't a promise. You move at the pace of the slower partner, and you can change any answer later. Your answers stay on your phone; we only keep an anonymous count of what couples want most.